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B'nai Mitzvah Program

Mazel Tov!

The time of a child's coming of age is one of the most meaningful experiences in a family's Jewish life. The Beth Shalom community has structured our training program to be top notch and to ensure your child an engaging, spirited learning environment. To that end, there are several, equally critical elements of our program that your child will participate in during Bar/Bat Mitzvah training. In addition to continuing his or her learning at Religious School or a day school, your child will attend Prozdor, receive one-on-one tutoring, supervision by our Bar/Bat Mitzvah Coordinator and work directly with Rabbi Borodin.

Click here to view the B'nai Mitzvah Handbook. In this packet you will find explanations of the program components, along with associated costs.

In order to proceed with a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, your household must be current on all synagogue financial responsibilities, including membership dues, sustaining fund or capital campaign obligations, Religious School and/or Prozdor tuition, and Bar/Bat Mitzvah fees. This requirement safeguards the sustainability of our program and we thank you in advance for honoring it.

We look forward to taking this journey with you. Please do not hesitate to ask questions and request our help as you prepare for this exciting milestone.

With Whom will I work:

There are numerous key players who are here to help in planning your child's B'nai Mitzvah:

Michele Stern - Bar/Bat Mitzvah Coordinator (BMC)
Michele will work with you on all aspects of planning the service and preparation.

Sandy Sloane - Lifecycle Coordinator or contact or 206-524-0075
Kris will work with you on planning your Kiddush, establishing your payment plan, finalizing your honors, scheduling meetings with Rabbi and many other event logistics.

A trained student tutor
A trained tutor will coach your child in trope and ensure that he or she is comfortable with the service.

Rabbi Borodin
The Rabbi will work with your child on his or her D'var Torah and have meetings with you to gauge progress.

 

Instruction of B'nai Mitzvah at Beth Shalom:

Important meetings and Deadlines:

Meetings with the B'nai Mitzvah Coordinator

  • Two Year group meeting with B'nai Mitzvah Coordinator
    • Giving out dates for 6th grade Family Minyan
  • One Year Meeting with B'nai Mitzvah Coordinator
    • Assess Hebrew reading skills
    • Determine the ceremony format
    • Arrange for Tutor
    • Establishing a payment plan
  • Four Month Meeting with the B'nai Mitzvah Coordinator
    • Evaluate progress
    • Hand out Honor/Aliyah form and discuss how to complete
    • Set up appointment for Two Month Meeting
  • Two Month Meeting with the B'nai Mitzvah Coordinator
    • Last evaluation of skills
    • Answer questions about ceremony/rehearsals/etc
    • Set dates for rehearsals
  • Rehearsals with the B'nai Mitzvah Coordinator
    • Two weeks and last week before the ceremony

Meetings with Rabbi

  • One Year Group Meeting with Rabbi
  • Four Month Meeting with Rabbi
    • Preparation for Writing the D'var Torah
  • Final Family Meeting with the Rabbi within a month of the Ceremony
    • Family shares written material with each other

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